Daily Life

Daily Life18 Sep 2006 12:02 am
Posted By: John & Libby

As it’s been two weeks since our last post, you may be wondering if we are hopelessly lost somewhere, still trying to make our way to Puebla. In fact, we’ve been back in Playa now for about two weeks. Although we still plan to report on the rest of our journey home to Playa, we’ve been sidetracked by a very serious matter. Our good friend, DJ, who many of our friends and family have met while vacationing in Playa, was involved in a serious motor scooter accident two weeks ago.

His list of injuries was grim: blood clot in the brain, fractured skull, punctured & infected lung and 8 broken ribs. He was unconscious for the first two days, a very scary time. Because he had no identification or health insurance information on him when he was discovered, DJ was transported to Cancun’s General Hospital, over an hour away. Although there are closer hospitals, many here will not accept a patient without health insurance and/or a cash or credit card deposit.

Luckily, a friend recognized DJ in one of the gory accident pictures they post in the local newspaper, and positively identified him at the hospital. The General Hospital was not the kind of place we wanted for DJ, but due to the severity of his injuries, he could not be moved immediately. This was the sort of place, not uncommon in Mexico, where medications for patients had to be bought by the family members. Although DJ was kept on life support, he was not medicated for his blood clot until he was discovered 1 1/2 days after the accident.

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Fortunately, DJ responded well to the medication, and regained consciousness. His blood clot was receding. After a few days, he was moved to a new hospital in Cancun — a big improvement, but still not the type of care we are accustomed to in the states. Despite that, DJ continued to make wonderful progress. The first time we saw DJ, he slept much of the time, could barely talk, moaned in pain when moving, and coughed horribly due to the lung infection. The last time Libby saw DJ (on Friday), he was talking, perusing magazines, walking all over the place (despite her objections but with her help) and taking a great interest in his personal appearance.

One of the first indications we had that DJ would be okay, was when he started asking for his cigarettes. And asking and asking … and begging and begging. He doesn’t understand why we won’t just let him go out to the store for some smokes. “I’ll be right back”, he assures us. He is under heavy medication, which prevents him from fully understanding his current situation, and which makes him say and do some funny things. Examining his hospital room one day, he commented, “I really don’t care for what they’ve done with this place.” And he takes full advantage of the situation by flirting with the many girls who come by to spend time with him, giving us hugs and kisses. It’s very sweet.

In fact, although DJ can be very stubborn at times, we’re amazed at how sweet and polite he has been throughout his ordeal. He is always thanking his friends and the hospital staff, and even apologizes when he’s been difficult. DJ has always been there for us, since our first night in Playa when he warned us away from slick-talking Victor (a time-share salesman as it turned out). He helped us learn the ropes, and introduced us to many of our Playa friends. We’re so happy to be able to return the favor now that he needs us.

And we’re not the only ones who feel this way. The incredible outpouring of support from the Playa community is a testament to DJ. His friends organized a constant vigil, making sure he was never alone at the hospital, and are holding countless fundraising events. Friends and fans from around the world have made monetary donations towards his care. DJ has no health insurance and his family is not in a position to pay for his medical needs. If you would like to help DJ, you may donate via Paypal here.

More information about DJ’s condition and fundraising events can be found here.

Daily Life12 Jul 2006 01:31 am
Posted By: John & Libby

We’re bad … so bad we should be in detention. Oh wait, that’s an Anthrax song. Like Anthrax, “we don’t care for writing hits”. Or perhaps it’s more like we don’t care for writing at all. Yes, it seems that we have not updated our blog in over a month. And our lame excuse is that we’ve been otherwise engaged.

In order to impress upon you just how occupied our time has been, we will now proceed to chronicle the highlights (and lowlights) of our past month. Enjoy.

Antonio Finds a Dancing PartnerWe bid farewell to our good friend, Antonio, with a muy borracho (very drunken) night at a fun salsa bar, the Mambo Café. Antonio was headed to his home state of Veracruz, and hoped to then move on to Montreal to practice his French. He speaks Spanish, English and is learning French. We speak … English. Our Spanish is probably as good as his French. Unfortunately for him, but fortunately for us, Montreal didn’t work out and Antonio will be returning to Playa del Carmen soon. Yippee! We’ve been missing him.

We’ve been watching World Cup football. That’s soccer to you Americans. Why Americans use the term football to denote a game which infrequently involves the foot, and soccer for a game that constantly involves the foot, we will never understand. Libby grew up in a football household, but this was pretty new to John, who grew up with baseball. Although we still don’t always recognize an offside when we see one (but then neither do the refs) and we were disappointed to see our teams (U.S., Czech Republic & Mexico) lose early on, we enjoyed rooting for Ghana (the upset team) and rooting against France in the final game with Italy. Way to go, Zidane! To be fair, Materazzi, the recipient of the assault, is no angel and obviously provoked Zidane. Italy won the World Cup in an overtime shootout. Had us biting our nails ‘til the very end. Our friend Paul took a video of the Italians in Playa celebrating the victory. Check it out – available in Windows Media or Quicktime formats.
Greco, Ami, Heather & JohnWe celebrated John’s 34th birthday with three of his favorite things — beach, beef and borracho-ness. The evening was spent partying at DJs, Kitxen and the Posada Freud bar with friends from the U.S., Mexico, Canada, England and Holland.

Brad & Ivan at DJs

We attended a Summer Solstice Festival at Pueblo Sacbe, a cool eco-community in the jungle, with our friends, Barb, Paul and Sarah. Entertainment included a cute children’s production of ‘Jungle Book’, some sort of Eastern music (possibly involving a sitar) that we’re too ignorant to recognize, flamenco dancing, a salsa band, and a rock band consisting of two of our favorite Playa musicians, American Brad and French Ivan (at least we think that’s his name; we can’t spell in French!).

Belize

We made a quick hop over the border to Belize to buy some cheap booze and expensive gas, contemplate muy expensive electronics, eat decent Chinese, and check out the casinos in the ‘Free Zone’. Libby had an interesting encounter with Belizean border officials. People think Mexico border police are corrupt! Sheesh!

We helped our friend Steve from Seattle celebrate his 40th B-day. Shameless plug for Steve (and Sara’s) website: PlayaMayaNews.

We rang in U.S. Independence Day with a small group of American friends at our friend Michele’s (and Rob’s) awesome pad with swimming pool in Playacar (fancy-schmancy suburb of Playa). Shameless plug for Michele and Rob’s project: Marina Turquesa. To the Americans wondering how U.S. Independence Day is celebrated in Mexico (yes, the question has been asked), it’s celebrated just as Mexican Independence Day (September 16th) is celebrated in the U.S. Not at all.

We switched our blogging software (from Movable Type to WordPress) giving us a new format and allowing us to have multiple authors. This means that instead of reading blog entries written from the perspective of John and Libby together, in the future you’ll be able to read about what John is thinking and more importantly what Libby is thinking. Double the fun! We’ve found that now that we are no longer spending every living moment together, we are actually having independent thoughts again. In theory, this change could mean that you can look forward to more numerous posts. On the other hand, well, maybe not.

And now for the teasers:

We moved to a new apartment. Five moves in eight months. And one more on the way.

We met with many lawyers, each of which told us something completely different about the law. We’re thinking they should all get together for a long lunch and get their stories straight or something.

A new apartment and lawyers? What does this all mean? We told you they were teasers. Stayed tuned.

Daily Life19 Nov 2005 08:36 pm
Posted By: John & Libby

After an intense search that went as far north as Cancun and as far south as Playacar (Playa del Carmen’s version of suburbia), we have finally succeeded in finding an honest to goodness cat litter box! Can we get an amen?!

We’ve made little progress in our apartment hunt. After much effort, we’ve finally acquired an old issue of Andale, a free classified paper, that contains various apartment listings. Oddly enough, their office is right around the corner (we saw it for the first time on Thursday!), so we’ll try to get a newer issue on Monday. We’d really like to find a place before tourist season really picks up (mid-December). Wish us luck!

We hear Chicago got some snow recently. We know exactly how you must feel. It’s been overcast, occasionally rainy, and only about 75 yesterday and today. Sucks to be us.

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